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I started this blog when we had three kids under 2 years old  – mostly to remind myself of the pleasures that I knew would one day return with ease, and of the simple things I could still create and enjoy with our little family every day – despite the crazy hours and random demands of my target audience.  I called it whatsentertaining – because nothing makes me happier than making things/food/events/games that make the people I love smile.  I thought it was a great play on the dialogue that is our life, the creativity that excites many of us, and the simple things that we all do every day to bring smiles to the faces of those we love.

A couple of years later I find myself asking a new question – one I see posted on facebook and linked in and all over social media chanels dominated by moms… what’s important? followed by in mice type …  ‘and how can i possibly do more because right now I kida feel like i’m failing in every bucket in life – just a little’

There was an awesome special recently related to this on cbc

How do you gauge success? Is it the title you hold? The money you make? The projects you manage? Is it the house you have or car you drive or clothes you wear? Is it based on how you measure up to friends, colleagues and lovers? Is it the chocolate kisses, finger paintings, goals scored, wild happy laughter of your kiddos? Or is it a mix?  A delicate balance…

This is such a tough one for me. I think being honest with yourself – really honest – about this question is so hard.  I want to be an idealist, but my ego seems a little too big… or something… Of course I compare myself to other people – to say I don’t would not be true.  I love the feeling when a project comes together, or a member of my team sees their value and I’ve been a good leader.  I am proud of our home and what we have worked very hard to create for our family.  But I was asked recently – if you were to leave the planet tomorrow – what would your greatest success have been? What made you the most happy and what would you wish you had done differently?

Such a good question.  Of course my answer to happiness is my kids, and my husband.  Which obviously makes  other commitments seem … wasted.  But are they?  In today’s world of two-income demands and high priced everything – how do you put your family first? Is it by providing for them so that you can enjoy the life you’ve always dreamed of for your family at the expense of being there to be present in the mundane moments that actually shape that journey?  Or is it by being there, and foregoing the luxuries others can enjoy so that you can take walks in the random sunshine on a rainy day, break up mini-fights with a lesson on values, and teach them about imagination and patience and kindness?  Is there really a balance?  If you’ve got an answer I’d love to hear it because I’m yet to figure it out.

It’s a busy world – and a fast pace.  Our girls turned 2 and a half today… and as I log on to work another night after a wonderful weekend enjoying food and fun with family and friends – I find myself asking – what’s important?

Today it was pancakes and hallway hockey, peter pan and painting. 

Back to fun recipes and crafts later this week…

write up my alley

I’ve been trying to be one of those ‘self-taught’ designers for years.  My lack of patience always leaves me feeling like the look of what I make is a little too home-spun and not quite cool enough.  I feel this way in particular when designing print materials.  I love fonts, and love downloading free fonts that creative people everywhere make for people a little less ‘designer’ (like me) to use.  This is one of many great artists who I love that share their free fonts and there are so many more you can find through blogs, pinterest and posts.

At work we’re just finalizing some brand guidelines, and the talk of font and the psychology behind which fonts work well in what circumstances and how to pair them for impact is fascinating.  I personally definitely gravitate to sans-serif fonts (those are fonts without the little projecting features like the ones you find in Times New Roman) – but I’m not special – most of the web friendly generations do because web-friendly fonts are very typically sans-serif for readability (like verdana, arial, helvetica)

Recently as my foray into fonts and adobe knowledge has become a bit more of an obsession (I’m still using power point to ‘design’ most things so you real designers please avert your eyes) – I stumbled across the most fabulous App. – ifontmaker.  It costs $6 to download – and it’s so worth it.  You can design your own font on your ipad with the stroke of your finger or stylus and then save and download to your computer to add to your own font library.  I created a number of fonts to help compliment some new designs I’ve been working on.  Our whole family got into the spirit – so Cam and Matt have their very own signature fonts now too.  My favorite part? We can track this kid’s letters as he grows and I can now use his font in thank-you notes and other stationary from him.  For a momma that loves the lost art of written mail and notes – this was a fabulous find … wanted to share in case you agree.  What’s your go-to favorite font?

matts font

Now if i could only figure out how to change this font on this blog … technology is a whole other world.

zoom goes the rocket ship

I’m going to try to tie this all together in a neat bow – but it will really only show you how random I can be… it all makes sense in my head.  So here we go:

I have been wanting to get back into sewing for a while.  My mother-in-law is an amazing seamstress and makes our girls gorgeous dresses that I love.  Very inspiring. Never going to that place, but I’m excited to do other, less daunting projects. Started with sewing a whole bunch of cards, then made some bags, and now onto t-shirts.  Sort of.  I don’t think I’d ever actually sew my own shirt given the price you can find them for already done.  Plus I’m impatient (no doubt a theme on this blog)… and I wanted to be a bit creative.  I actually really like the idea of inspiring our kids with what they wear.  I want them to be excited by the little things every day – even if it means dressing them in clothes (sometimes) that will help spark their imagination.  So I thought I would design some appliques in fun colours and stick/sew them onto plain shirts that they already have in their drawers.

Meanwhile:

Our son is studying space in school this month.  Our stand-by craft favorite – the paper towel or TP roll – has now been converted into space ships using markers and construction paper.  The three kids have been soaring through space this weekend thanks to some stars we made around Christmas time, some great educational space songs I grabbed off you-tube (love the story bots) and some glow in the dark markers that helped us make planets and alien dinosaurs (can’t forget the dinos).

Also:

This month marks our adorable nephew’s first birthday.  The theme for his party is monkeys.  My brain always goes to Curious George or to sock monkeys … and the infinite possibilities with both.  I know it’ll be an amazing party and I’m sad we can’t be there for it – so I thought I’d try to make something a little personal for them to send ahead, to go along with the theme.

How it all comes together:

I have a bunch of sample fabric (scraps) that i buy cheaply from fabric stores. They are just small pieces, most avid sewers might even toss them – but for me they are just the right size to create some magic.  Last night I had some fun with that fabric, and some plain shirts I picked up during the week.  The first is my take on a sock monkey, for my classy cutie pie nephew – no wild colours or patterns – but with a little number one on the monkey’s tummy to mark his big day.  The second, was actually from the left over scraps of the sock monkey shirt – I had enough fabric that I’d ironed on to wonder-under to sketch out a rocket ship and make our space fan his own rocket ship shirt.monkey shirt1rocket ship t

The irony is that I actually dreamed this up for our girls.  I’m excited to make them shirts that aren’t necessarily ‘girlie’ but that also engage their imagination.  K loves pirate ships right now and airplanes, and C loves fish and whales – so I was thinking I would do something along those lines for them.  Ran out of time, which is great… because it means I get to do this again. 🙂

In case you’re wondering – yes – this is another craft you can totally do at home.  Here’s the quick and dirty on how I did it:

  1. pre-wash and iron all fabric, sketch out a design you think you want to usematerial ironed material1
  2. make sure your design is relatively simple, the devil is in the details.  Also eye-ball it with the size of your shirt and make sure it will all fit                                                           drawing colour and drawing monkey
  3. follow wonder-under or other iron-on transfer instructions – and apply to fabric on the wrong side.  Then draw what you want out of each piece of fabric right onto the paper you’ve attached.
  4. cut out the shapes (remember to do it backwards as you’ll be flipping the fabric over to apply it to the shirt), place on your shirt and make sure it all works, then peel back and iron onto your shirtalmost done
    rocket almost done
  5. you can leave it like that.  for these ones I did a rough sew just inside the edge to add to the look.  I also added some buttons for embellishmentsmonkey close up